Monday, February 27, 2023

Poetry Corner: Seeds of a Dream

  

I know a tree: 

Discarded on the lonely mountains of despair, it was only but a seed, 

Battered and bruised by the heat of injustice, its roots rooted in pain, 

With a promise of hope, it sprouted for everyone to see, 

Covered by the showers of love, it rose from the fertile grounds of its mother’s womb with barks as strong as an ebony tree, 

It grew tall like Kilimanjaro, looking eye to eye with the heavens- its branches from sea to sea, 

Under the warm kisses of sunshine, its flowers blossomed and bloomed for many moons. 

 


I know a tree, 

In the shades of its canopy, I am forever free. 

 




 

Michael Kofi Esson is a medical student in the MCW-Milwaukee Class of 2025 with a passion for contributing to refugee communities locally and abroad. He believes in the healing and transforming powers of stories shared through poems. His hope is to continue to write poems and, in the process, grow and heal anew. He is chair of MCW’s Refugee Mentorship and treasurer of MCW’s White Coat for Black Lives. 

 

 

Thursday, February 23, 2023

Heart Attack



Heart Attack 
Karen Herzog




A path from fear to grace. Ms. Herzog writes about how, for decades, the threat of death was never far away from her mother, yet compassionate caregivers brought both hope and healing ...

 



Compassionate medical care gave my mom 43 more years of life after a heart attack at age 47. 


I was fourteen when the attack began while Mom was carrying hay to the calves on our family’s dairy farm in Iowa. For reasons I don’t understand, it took 24 hours for attending physicians at our small-town hospital to diagnose it. She was admitted for observation, then transferred by ambulance to a better-equipped hospital 30 miles away after tests confirmed her diagnosis the next day. Lack of communication did not give us confidence in her care. I was certain she was dying; a heart attack sounded brutal to a teenager. 
Dr. Andrew Smith, the internist who treated Mom at the transfer hospital, was both an excellent physician and a kind person. She recovered and trusted him implicitly as she continued to see him regularly. He called her his "miracle patient," and made her feel safe in his care. He was thorough in practice and attentive to factors that influenced her health, including the 1980s farm crisis that hit our family hard, and put our land into foreclosure. 

 

Mom cried when Dr. Smith retired thirteen years after her heart attack. I wonder whether he remembered her as fondly as she remembered him. 

 

I felt like I knew Dr. Smith, too, though I never met him. He gave Mom confidence that she could recover and be well again. 

 

I don’t know many details of the heart attack in Fall 1977. I mostly remember the force with which it hit my teenage brain that my mom’s heart was perfect only in a manner of speaking. Her heart was damaged and could stop beating at any time. It’s something most kids don’t have reason to think about. 

 

Every time Mom experienced angina during my teen years, it was scary. The knowledge Dr. Smith shared with her was important to the whole family. It gave us the sense that a frightening situation was under control. 

 

I never got to know the cardiologist in Iowa who kept Mom’s heart going for more than three decades. I moved away after college. Among his greatest gifts to us was arranging for Mom’s aortic valve replacement to happen in Milwaukee, where my sister and I live. He knew the value of her recovering near her daughters, and made it happen quickly with a phone call to a medical school friend. 

 


A surgeon’s smile 

 


Open-heart surgery on Valentine’s Day is both poetic and terrifying.   


The surgery to replace a valve severely damaged by stenosis happened two weeks after Mom turned 78, and two years after Dad died of complications of diabetes. Her surgeon, Dr. Paul Werner, was matter of fact as he talked about the procedure. We didn’t appreciate his personality until we saw his huge smile as he approached my siblings and me after surgery. He told us that in addition to replacing the aortic valve, he did a single vessel bypass while I was in there. His smile was warm, and showed how gratified he was by his craft. 

 

I would like to think the cow valve stitched into Mom’s heart on Valentine’s Day was also a gift from Dad – the dairy farmer who first swept her off her feet at a dance hall called the Electric Park Ballroom in her late 20s.  

 


Post-op gift from a physician neighbor 


 While still in the hospital, Mom was diagnosed with diabetes. My neighbor, Dr. Sophie Kramer, offered to help us navigate the new diagnosis while Mom temporarily lived with me during cardiac rehab. 

 

Dr. Kramer -- well-known among my friends for providing compassionate, excellent care for elderly parents -- made herself available for questions at any time. She agreed to be my mom’s internist when Mom moved from Iowa to Milwaukee permanently, four years later 

 

It didn’t take long for Dr. Kramer to join Dr. Smith in the sweet spot of my mom’s heart, where she remained for eight years, until Mom died. Dr. Kramer set the bar high for excellence with compassion. Her mind focused on clinical care, while her heart cared about Mom’s comfort and quality of life. She listened intently, and gently asked questions to better understand the many challenges in Mom’s daily life due to severe arthritis and other medical issues. We could see the concern on her face, and her genuine desire to relieve the suffering. 

 

 Seven months before her death in 2019, Mom fell out of bed in a rehab unit where she was recovering from a broken leg. We were furious that it happened while the bed was in an elevated position. The next day, we moved her back to her apartment for 24/7 private care and hospice. Her badly bruised forehead was a daily reminder of the trauma, but Mom was happy to be home with her cat, Molly. Within days of the move, Dr. Kramer visited Mom at her apartment. She was concerned. She understood Mom’s need to feel safe again. 

 

I can only imagine how emotionally draining it must be for a physician who practices a holistic approach to patient care. Medical care within tight schedules and corporate management is not conducive to compassion, and neither are the long, exhausting hours of a physician’s practice. I often wonder how compassionate physicians can stay compassionate, and how they maintain their own healthy balance. 

 


Soap opera ending 

 


Fear was a visceral part of our lives until Mom’s heart did stop beating, six minutes into her favorite soap opera, The Bold and the Beautiful, and four days before Christmas in 2019. 



She was 90 and had rebounded dramatically in hospice care. The decision to start hospice care was gradual. We all recognized Mom faced daily challenges on many fronts. Prioritizing her comfort was the right call. She did well with 24/7 caregivers and hospice team members who set her up with a great bed and made her comfortable with massages and oatmeal baths. At the end, when Mom became unresponsive, my sister and I stayed at her bedside. We wanted to make sure her pain was managed, and to hold her hand for our own comfort. 

 

When what I had feared since high school finally happened, it thankfully was so peaceful, my first thought was something I later would have teased her about, had death not been permanent: How could she not stick around until the end of a Friday cliffhanger of The Bold and the Beautiful?” She slipped away quietly as I sat beside her, absorbed in the first six minutes of a soap opera we had watched together for decades. I did not expect her last heartbeat to seem so natural. The grace in that moment took away my fear. 

 

I’m grateful that the Kern Institute at the Medical College of Wisconsin is nurturing compassionate clinical excellence, alongside self-care, as an integral part of physician training.  

 

Patients and their families need the heart of medicine to keep beating. 

 



Karen Herzog recently joined the Transformational Times as Copy Editor. She believes in the power of compassionate medical excellence from personal experience and is honored to be part of the process of medical students and physician faculty members reflecting on their own experiences of hope, resilience, and compassion. As a former journalist who witnessed unimaginable tragedies through decades of reporting, she is amazed by the brain’s ability to compartmentalize. She also understands that what we see, and what we experience, becomes a part of us that requires a gentle touch, too.